Saturday, August 14, 2010
Friday, July 16, 2010
remove u r shyness
If you are troubled by shyness ...
Remember when you were in a room with people and had awkward hesitant feelings? Or not being comfortable approaching someone for business? Or wanting to ask someone for a date, but did not follow through? In these situations is there some force holding you back?“Shyness is rooted in fear — an irrational fear of speaking up and being humiliated or ignored. Why are some people so afraid of speaking out? In my mind the main causes are oversensitivity and insecurity. When you associate speaking out with pain and embarrassment, you’ll do almost anything to avoid it.” John Wesley, PickTheBrain
Shy feelings stem from self-consciousness, when too much of your focus of attention has shifted to yourself. Whether you are introverted or extraverted, shyness has to do with being uncomfortable with yourself around other people. Although these feelings often decrease with adulthood, shyness can persist and become an imprisoning habit.
Shyness is a major handicap for successful communication. It is important to work towards overcoming and eliminating the handicap. Action is required. By learning people skills (free e-guide) as well as the strategies of self-confidence and self-management, you can become comfortable in social situations. As nervousness and awkwardness disappear, shyness will no longer be a problem.
Public Service Guidance From Certified Expert
"In my early years with a working worried mother and mostly absent argumentative father, I was an only lonely child. My small family was at odds and I was unconnected with neighborhood kids. I badly suffered from shyness, bullies and shame.It took a long while to see any improvements in my alienation, isolation and distressed emotions. I went along unhappily with less verbal communication and personal connection, but with more upsets, explosiveness, fantasies, suicidal ideas and attention deficits. My immediate family couldn’t help, and others wouldn’t or just acted like I should be different.
What I needed was the opportunity to learn and to practice valuable skills. Wanting answers for the conflict, disappointment and despair, I searched many years for whatever could help. This included asking friends, listening to presumed experts, reading anything that seemed relevant and practicing the discovered skills. I became a psychology teacher, counselor and leader. Over the years, helping others has helped me as well. I’m still paying it back -- and forward." E.L. Lotecka
Wednesday, June 16, 2010
love quotes
Love is something eternal; the aspect may change,
but not the essence. Van Gogh, Vincent
Love is that condition in which the
happiness of another person is essential to your own. Heinlein, Robert
Love is that enviable state that knows no envy or vanity,
only empathy and a longing to be greater than oneself. McMahon, Joe
Love is the exchange of two fantasies
and the contact of two skins. Chamfort, Nicholas
Love is the expression of simplicity in emotion, the unattainable longing that comes so unexpectedly, with great subtlety and bliss. Dao, Luyen
Love is the greatest refreshment in life. Picasso, Pablo
Love is the language our hearts use to speak to one another.
For you, my dear, my heart sings. Byrd, Amanda R.
Love is the only sane and satisfactory answer to the problem of human existence. Fromm, Erich
Love is the power that heals the soul and mends hearts. Harrison, Jill
Love is the power which can make you or break you.
Everytime I close my eyes your love is all around. Hassaan,
Love is to sex, sex is to sin
sins are forgiven, so lets begin
3 hours of pleasure, 9 months of pain
2 hours in the hospital and a baby to name
fathers a basterd, mothers a whore
none of this would have happened
if the rubber wouldn't have tore W., L.
Love is unconditional. . . Relationships are not. Gudmundson, Grant
Love is what you make it. Terri,
Love is when two people who care for each other get confused. Schneider, Bob
Love is, above all, the gift of oneself. Anouih, Jean
Love keeps your heart busy. H, Wisdom
Love looks not with the eyes, but with the mind;
And therefore is winged Cupid painted blind. Shakespeare, William
Love never stops even she is in front of you. H, Wisdom
Love seeketh not Itself to please, Nor for itself hath any care,
But for another gives it ease,
And builds a Heaven in Hell's despair. Blake, William
Love simply IS. Harrison, Jill
Love takes time. It needs a history of giving and receiving, laughing
and crying...
Love never promises instant gratification, only ultimate fulfillment.
Love means believing in someone, in something. It supposes a
willingness to struggle, to work, to suffer, and to rejoice.
Satisfaction and ultimate fulfillment are by-products of dedicated
love. They belong only to those who can reach beyond themselves; to
whom giving is more important than receiving.
Love is doing everything you can to help others build whatever dreams
they have.
Love involves much careful and active listening. It is doing whatever
needs to be done, and saving whatever will promote the other's
happiness, security, and well-being. Sometimes, love hurts.
Love is on a constant journey to what others need. It must be attentive,
caring, and open, both to what others say and to what others cannot
say...
Love says no with empathy and great compassion.
Love is firm, but when needed it must be tender.
When others have tried and failed, love is the hand in yours in your
moments of discouragement and disappointment.
Love is reliable.
Love is a choice and commitment to others' true and lasting happiness.
It
is dedicated to growth and fulfillment. Love is not selfish.
Love sometimes fails for lack of wisdom or abundance of weakness, but it
forgives, knowing the intentions are good.
Love does not attach conditions....Genuine love is always a free gift.
Love realizes and accepts that there will be disagreements and
disturbing
emotions...There may be times when miles lay between, but love is a
commitment. It believes and endures things.
Love encourages freedom of self. Love shares positives and negatives
reactions to warm and cold feelings.
Love, intimate love, will never reject others. It is the first to
encourage and the last to condemn.
Love is a commitment to growth, happiness, and fulfillment of one
another. Upham, Barb
Love those who love you. Voltaire,
Love will find a way through paths
where wolves fear to prey. Byron, George Gordon Lord
Love, and do what you like. Agostino,
Love, you are eternal like springtime. Jiminez, Juan Ramon
Love. Need I say more? Reeves, Bram Scott
Loving can cost a lot but not loving always costs more, and those who fear to love often find that want of love is an emptiness that robs the joy from life. Shain, Merle
Lust lasts longer than latinum. Quark, (Deep Space 9)
Man loves little and often:
Woman much and rarely. anonymous,
Marriage is not living with the person you love,
but living with the person you can't live without. Sarmiento, Aissa Amor A.
May your love soar on the wings of a dove in flight. Crabtree, Debbie
Men are always sincere.
They change sincerity, that's all! Bernard, Tristan
Mine ear is enamoured by thy note;
So is mine eye enthralled by thy shape;
and thy fair virtues force perforce doth move me;
to say, to swear, i love thee. Shakespeare, William
Immature love says: "I love you because I need you."
Mature love says: "I need you because I love you." Fromm, Erich
My first glance fell on your heart! Schiller, Johann F.C.
My friend, let's not think of tomorrow,
but let's enjoy this fleeting moment of life. Kyyam, Omar
My night has become a sunny dawn because of you. Abbad, Ibn
No one is useless in this world who lightens the burdens of another. Dickens, Charles
No sooner met but they looked;
no sooner looked but they loved;
no sooner loved but they sighed;
no sooner sighed but they asked one
another the reason;
no sooner knew the reason but they sought the remedy. Shakespeare, William
No surprise can produce
such a magical effect as being loved. Morgan, Charles
No words are necessary between two loving hearts. unknown,
No, there's nothing half so sweet in life
As love's young dream. Moore, Thomas
No-one is ever betrayed by true love. Rudel, Jaufré
Not loving is but a long dying. Ti, Wu
O what a heaven is love! O what a hell! Dekker, Thomas
Once you have loved, You will always love.
For what's in your mind may escape,
But what's in your heart will remain forever. Zuroweste, Brooke
One can care little for man,
but we need a friend. proverbs, Chinese
One day I wrote her name upon the strand,
But came the waves and washed it away:
Again, I wrote it with a second hand;
But came the tide, and made my pains his prey.
Vain man, said she that dost in vain assay,
A mortal thing so to immortalize. Spenser, Edmund
One is alone with all the things he loves. Novalis,
One kiss breaches the distance between friendship and love. anonymous,
Outside are the storms and strangers:
We - Oh, close, safe and warm
sleep I and she, I and she . . . Browning, Robert
Pains of love be sweeter far
Than all other pleasures are. Dryden, John
People happy in love have an air of intensity. Stendhal,
Pure and complete sorrow is impossible as pure and complete joy. Tolstoy, Leo
Real love is perpertual. Harrison, Jill
Reason and love are sworn enemies. Corneille,
"Red Rose"
Red is the color of which I will bear.
Like the color of a rose it tells that I am true.
For me to state anything else is quite false.
My love for you runs more deep and more true than the glorius
color of a red rose.
It runs more deep than the bluest ocean or the widest sea.
My love for you will always be there, even though I may not be.
If you are to forgive me then the love that I have for you will
pour over you and fill your veins untill the blood that now flows in them
will now be my love.
It is so strong that the moment that I stand up it knocks me
down.
I've never met anyone quite like you.
You are the only thing that keeps me living.
You are the only thing that is running through my body.
My body, mind and soul are taken over by your power.
Your love is the thing that makes my heart beat,
Every second that you're not there it slows down 1 beat,
When I hear your voice again my heart beats faster hoping for
your return. Wheeler, Candace
Night Light
Searching in the dark Im lost with out your touch, The day comes but the
sun never shines. It's a dream yet the candle slowly grows small, I need
the net of your love to ceach me when I fall. Rygiel, Stephen
Security is when I'm very much in love with somebody extraordinary who loves me back. Winters, Shelley
Set me as a seal upon thy heart, as a seal upon thine arm: for love is strong as death. Bible, The
Sex is a momentary itch, love never lets you go. anonymous,
She fights and vanquishes in me, and I live and breathe in her,
and I have life and being. Cervantes, Migeul de
She who has never loved, has never lived. Gay, J.
Soft white petals
A fragrance so sweet
Blooming in a meadow
So pretty, so petite
If you listen closely
You can hear it sing
Though it knows it's dying
It looks only to the spring. Long, R.E.
Some people think it's holding on that makes you strong, sometimes it's letting go. unknown,
Sometimes we see things not as they are but as we are:
Love brings understanding. unknown,
Sweet springtime is my time is your time is our time
for springtime is love time and viva sweet love. Cummings, E.E.
Take away love, and our earth is a tomb. Browning, Robert
Take it and return it: the kiss of love. unknown,
The course of true love never did run smooth. Shakespeare, William
The darkness is no darkness with thee. . .
(1662, Psalms 139:5) Prayer Book,
The desire for possession is insatiable,
to such a point that it can survive even
love itselft.
To love, therefore, is to sterilize the
person one loves. Camus, Albert
The Eskimo has fifty two names for snow because it is important to them, there ought to be as many for love. Atwood, Margaret
The first duty of love is to listen. Tillich, Paul
The following are only some of the key words that remind me of you; Love, world, life, live, girl, woman, kiss, hugs, marriage, God, forever, etc. Rackels, Patrick
Love's Philosophy
The fountains mingle with the river,
And the rivers with the ocean;
The winds of heaven mix forever,
With a sweet emotion;
Nothing in the world is single;
All things by a law divine
In one another's being mingle. . . . .
See! The mountains kiss high heaven,
And the waves clasp one another;
No sister flower would be forgiven
If it disdained its brother;
And the sunlight clasps the earth,
And the moonbeams kiss the sea. . . . . Shelley, Percy Bysshe
The great tragedy of life is not that men perish, but that they cease to love. unknown,
The heart has it's reasons,
whereof reason knows nothing. Pascal,
The heart has no wrinkles. Sevigne, M.se de
The heart is not judged by how much you love,
but by how much you are loved by others. Oz, The Wizard of
The heart was made to be broken. Wilde, Oscar
The kiss is the King of Hearts and brooks no refusal. unknown,
The kiss, a sweet discovery of oneself after a long search. anonymous,
The light, that lies In woman's eyes,
Has been my heart's undoing. Moore, Thomas
The love of beauty in it's multiple forms is the noblest gift of the
human cerebum. Carrel, Alexis
The magic of first love is our ignorance that it can never end. Disraeli, Benjamin
The minute I heard my first love story
I started looking for you,
not knowing how blind that was.
Lovers don't finally meet somewhere.
They're in each other all along. Rumi, Jeraluddin
The most eloquent silence; that of two mouths meeting in a kiss. unknown,
The night has a thousand eyes,
And the day but one,
Yet the light of the bright world dies
with the dying sun.
The mind has a thousand eyes,
And the heart but one;
Yet the light of a whole life dies
when love is done. Bourdillon, Francis William
but not the essence. Van Gogh, Vincent
Love is that condition in which the
happiness of another person is essential to your own. Heinlein, Robert
Love is that enviable state that knows no envy or vanity,
only empathy and a longing to be greater than oneself. McMahon, Joe
Love is the exchange of two fantasies
and the contact of two skins. Chamfort, Nicholas
Love is the expression of simplicity in emotion, the unattainable longing that comes so unexpectedly, with great subtlety and bliss. Dao, Luyen
Love is the greatest refreshment in life. Picasso, Pablo
Love is the language our hearts use to speak to one another.
For you, my dear, my heart sings. Byrd, Amanda R.
Love is the only sane and satisfactory answer to the problem of human existence. Fromm, Erich
Love is the power that heals the soul and mends hearts. Harrison, Jill
Love is the power which can make you or break you.
Everytime I close my eyes your love is all around. Hassaan,
Love is to sex, sex is to sin
sins are forgiven, so lets begin
3 hours of pleasure, 9 months of pain
2 hours in the hospital and a baby to name
fathers a basterd, mothers a whore
none of this would have happened
if the rubber wouldn't have tore W., L.
Love is unconditional. . . Relationships are not. Gudmundson, Grant
Love is what you make it. Terri,
Love is when two people who care for each other get confused. Schneider, Bob
Love is, above all, the gift of oneself. Anouih, Jean
Love keeps your heart busy. H, Wisdom
Love looks not with the eyes, but with the mind;
And therefore is winged Cupid painted blind. Shakespeare, William
Love never stops even she is in front of you. H, Wisdom
Love seeketh not Itself to please, Nor for itself hath any care,
But for another gives it ease,
And builds a Heaven in Hell's despair. Blake, William
Love simply IS. Harrison, Jill
Love takes time. It needs a history of giving and receiving, laughing
and crying...
Love never promises instant gratification, only ultimate fulfillment.
Love means believing in someone, in something. It supposes a
willingness to struggle, to work, to suffer, and to rejoice.
Satisfaction and ultimate fulfillment are by-products of dedicated
love. They belong only to those who can reach beyond themselves; to
whom giving is more important than receiving.
Love is doing everything you can to help others build whatever dreams
they have.
Love involves much careful and active listening. It is doing whatever
needs to be done, and saving whatever will promote the other's
happiness, security, and well-being. Sometimes, love hurts.
Love is on a constant journey to what others need. It must be attentive,
caring, and open, both to what others say and to what others cannot
say...
Love says no with empathy and great compassion.
Love is firm, but when needed it must be tender.
When others have tried and failed, love is the hand in yours in your
moments of discouragement and disappointment.
Love is reliable.
Love is a choice and commitment to others' true and lasting happiness.
It
is dedicated to growth and fulfillment. Love is not selfish.
Love sometimes fails for lack of wisdom or abundance of weakness, but it
forgives, knowing the intentions are good.
Love does not attach conditions....Genuine love is always a free gift.
Love realizes and accepts that there will be disagreements and
disturbing
emotions...There may be times when miles lay between, but love is a
commitment. It believes and endures things.
Love encourages freedom of self. Love shares positives and negatives
reactions to warm and cold feelings.
Love, intimate love, will never reject others. It is the first to
encourage and the last to condemn.
Love is a commitment to growth, happiness, and fulfillment of one
another. Upham, Barb
Love those who love you. Voltaire,
Love will find a way through paths
where wolves fear to prey. Byron, George Gordon Lord
Love, and do what you like. Agostino,
Love, you are eternal like springtime. Jiminez, Juan Ramon
Love. Need I say more? Reeves, Bram Scott
Loving can cost a lot but not loving always costs more, and those who fear to love often find that want of love is an emptiness that robs the joy from life. Shain, Merle
Lust lasts longer than latinum. Quark, (Deep Space 9)
Man loves little and often:
Woman much and rarely. anonymous,
Marriage is not living with the person you love,
but living with the person you can't live without. Sarmiento, Aissa Amor A.
May your love soar on the wings of a dove in flight. Crabtree, Debbie
Men are always sincere.
They change sincerity, that's all! Bernard, Tristan
Mine ear is enamoured by thy note;
So is mine eye enthralled by thy shape;
and thy fair virtues force perforce doth move me;
to say, to swear, i love thee. Shakespeare, William
Immature love says: "I love you because I need you."
Mature love says: "I need you because I love you." Fromm, Erich
My first glance fell on your heart! Schiller, Johann F.C.
My friend, let's not think of tomorrow,
but let's enjoy this fleeting moment of life. Kyyam, Omar
My night has become a sunny dawn because of you. Abbad, Ibn
No one is useless in this world who lightens the burdens of another. Dickens, Charles
No sooner met but they looked;
no sooner looked but they loved;
no sooner loved but they sighed;
no sooner sighed but they asked one
another the reason;
no sooner knew the reason but they sought the remedy. Shakespeare, William
No surprise can produce
such a magical effect as being loved. Morgan, Charles
No words are necessary between two loving hearts. unknown,
No, there's nothing half so sweet in life
As love's young dream. Moore, Thomas
No-one is ever betrayed by true love. Rudel, Jaufré
Not loving is but a long dying. Ti, Wu
O what a heaven is love! O what a hell! Dekker, Thomas
Once you have loved, You will always love.
For what's in your mind may escape,
But what's in your heart will remain forever. Zuroweste, Brooke
One can care little for man,
but we need a friend. proverbs, Chinese
One day I wrote her name upon the strand,
But came the waves and washed it away:
Again, I wrote it with a second hand;
But came the tide, and made my pains his prey.
Vain man, said she that dost in vain assay,
A mortal thing so to immortalize. Spenser, Edmund
One is alone with all the things he loves. Novalis,
One kiss breaches the distance between friendship and love. anonymous,
Outside are the storms and strangers:
We - Oh, close, safe and warm
sleep I and she, I and she . . . Browning, Robert
Pains of love be sweeter far
Than all other pleasures are. Dryden, John
People happy in love have an air of intensity. Stendhal,
Pure and complete sorrow is impossible as pure and complete joy. Tolstoy, Leo
Real love is perpertual. Harrison, Jill
Reason and love are sworn enemies. Corneille,
"Red Rose"
Red is the color of which I will bear.
Like the color of a rose it tells that I am true.
For me to state anything else is quite false.
My love for you runs more deep and more true than the glorius
color of a red rose.
It runs more deep than the bluest ocean or the widest sea.
My love for you will always be there, even though I may not be.
If you are to forgive me then the love that I have for you will
pour over you and fill your veins untill the blood that now flows in them
will now be my love.
It is so strong that the moment that I stand up it knocks me
down.
I've never met anyone quite like you.
You are the only thing that keeps me living.
You are the only thing that is running through my body.
My body, mind and soul are taken over by your power.
Your love is the thing that makes my heart beat,
Every second that you're not there it slows down 1 beat,
When I hear your voice again my heart beats faster hoping for
your return. Wheeler, Candace
Night Light
Searching in the dark Im lost with out your touch, The day comes but the
sun never shines. It's a dream yet the candle slowly grows small, I need
the net of your love to ceach me when I fall. Rygiel, Stephen
Security is when I'm very much in love with somebody extraordinary who loves me back. Winters, Shelley
Set me as a seal upon thy heart, as a seal upon thine arm: for love is strong as death. Bible, The
Sex is a momentary itch, love never lets you go. anonymous,
She fights and vanquishes in me, and I live and breathe in her,
and I have life and being. Cervantes, Migeul de
She who has never loved, has never lived. Gay, J.
Soft white petals
A fragrance so sweet
Blooming in a meadow
So pretty, so petite
If you listen closely
You can hear it sing
Though it knows it's dying
It looks only to the spring. Long, R.E.
Some people think it's holding on that makes you strong, sometimes it's letting go. unknown,
Sometimes we see things not as they are but as we are:
Love brings understanding. unknown,
Sweet springtime is my time is your time is our time
for springtime is love time and viva sweet love. Cummings, E.E.
Take away love, and our earth is a tomb. Browning, Robert
Take it and return it: the kiss of love. unknown,
The course of true love never did run smooth. Shakespeare, William
The darkness is no darkness with thee. . .
(1662, Psalms 139:5) Prayer Book,
The desire for possession is insatiable,
to such a point that it can survive even
love itselft.
To love, therefore, is to sterilize the
person one loves. Camus, Albert
The Eskimo has fifty two names for snow because it is important to them, there ought to be as many for love. Atwood, Margaret
The first duty of love is to listen. Tillich, Paul
The following are only some of the key words that remind me of you; Love, world, life, live, girl, woman, kiss, hugs, marriage, God, forever, etc. Rackels, Patrick
Love's Philosophy
The fountains mingle with the river,
And the rivers with the ocean;
The winds of heaven mix forever,
With a sweet emotion;
Nothing in the world is single;
All things by a law divine
In one another's being mingle. . . . .
See! The mountains kiss high heaven,
And the waves clasp one another;
No sister flower would be forgiven
If it disdained its brother;
And the sunlight clasps the earth,
And the moonbeams kiss the sea. . . . . Shelley, Percy Bysshe
The great tragedy of life is not that men perish, but that they cease to love. unknown,
The heart has it's reasons,
whereof reason knows nothing. Pascal,
The heart has no wrinkles. Sevigne, M.se de
The heart is not judged by how much you love,
but by how much you are loved by others. Oz, The Wizard of
The heart was made to be broken. Wilde, Oscar
The kiss is the King of Hearts and brooks no refusal. unknown,
The kiss, a sweet discovery of oneself after a long search. anonymous,
The light, that lies In woman's eyes,
Has been my heart's undoing. Moore, Thomas
The love of beauty in it's multiple forms is the noblest gift of the
human cerebum. Carrel, Alexis
The magic of first love is our ignorance that it can never end. Disraeli, Benjamin
The minute I heard my first love story
I started looking for you,
not knowing how blind that was.
Lovers don't finally meet somewhere.
They're in each other all along. Rumi, Jeraluddin
The most eloquent silence; that of two mouths meeting in a kiss. unknown,
The night has a thousand eyes,
And the day but one,
Yet the light of the bright world dies
with the dying sun.
The mind has a thousand eyes,
And the heart but one;
Yet the light of a whole life dies
when love is done. Bourdillon, Francis William
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